Enough Quote by Sydney J. Harris
“Almost no one is foolish enough to imagine that he automatically deserves great success in any field of activity; yet almost everyone believes that he automatically deserves success in marriage.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: "The Myth of Meritocracy", 1972
People often think they deserve success in marriage without effort, while they recognize merit is required elsewhere.
In simple terms: Marriage is seen as a right, not earned.
Key Takeaway
Question assumptions about entitlement.
Themes
entitlement
marriage
meritocracy
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- marriage education
- personal reflection
- social critique
Key Concepts
social psychology
cultural expectations
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you expect success without work?
- How does this belief affect your relationships?
A Different Perspective
Not all relationships are equal; effort still matters.
