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Child Quote by Suzanne Finnamore

“After you are here, I will try not to become one of those parents who brag incessantly about their children, who force them to recite the alphabet backward or sing the Lord's Prayer in German to horrified dinner guests. One of those parents who tell people who aren't interested and haven't askd…” quote by Suzanne Finnamore
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““After you are here, I will try not to become one of those parents who brag incessantly about their children, who force them to recite the alphabet backward or sing the Lord's Prayer in German to horrified dinner guests. One of those parents who tell people who aren't interested and haven't askd what their progeny's grade-point average is, what school they go to, how handsome and brilliant and psychic they are. If something goes awry and I do become one of those parents, you have my permission to sneak into my bedroom while I am sleeping and pinch my nostrils shut.””

Suzanne Finnamore

About This Quote

Source Essay: Parenting reflections, 2021

Parents should avoid boastful, intrusive behavior and allow children to develop authentically, respecting privacy and individuality.

In simple terms: Let children grow without bragging or control.

Key Takeaway

Practice humility and respect in parenting.

Themes

parenting humility privacy

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • school meetings
  • online sharing
  • parent‑teacher conferences

Key Concepts

family dynamics social expectations

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you support your child without over‑sharing?
  • What boundaries feel healthy for you?
A Different Perspective

Over‑protectiveness can stifle independence.

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