New friends Quote by Susan Forward
““If the misogynist feels threatened that he is going to lose something that is important to him and therefore be humiliated, it is quite likely to tip the scales toward brutality. For instance, if a woman gets a job after having been at home for a number of years, or if she returns to school or makes new friends who make him feel threatened or left out, he might try to control her by bullying and threatening. If that is not successful, he may resort to physical violence, thinking that he can hold on to her more firmly if she is frightened of him.””
About This Quote
Source Book: "Toxic Parents" by Susan Forward, 2008
Explains how threatened misogynists may react violently when a woman gains independence.
In simple terms: Threatened men may turn to abuse.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and address controlling behavior.
Themes
gender
violence
control
Mood
cautionary
empathetic
Type
psychological
educational
When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- workplace training
- education programs
Key Concepts
power dynamics
psychology
abuse
Questions to Reflect On
- What signs indicate escalating control?
- How can support systems intervene early?
A Different Perspective
Root causes are complex; not all threats lead to violence.
