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Deserve Quote by Studs Terkel

“When I put the plate down, you don't hear a sound. When I pick up a glass, I want it to be just right. When someone says, "How come you're just a waitress?" I say, "Don't you think you deserve being served by me?"” quote by Studs Terkel
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“When I put the plate down, you don't hear a sound. When I pick up a glass, I want it to be just right. When someone says, "How come you're just a waitress?" I say, "Don't you think you deserve being served by me?"”

Studs Terkel

About This Quote

The speaker contrasts the quietness of a plate with the desired sound of a glass, then flips a gendered insult into a claim of deserving respect.

In simple terms: Quiet objects differ from those we want to hear; respond to disrespect with confidence.

Key Takeaway

Notice sound cues and assert your worth.

Themes

gender dynamics respect communication

Mood

assertive thoughtful

Type

conversational empowering

When to use this quote

  • restaurant work
  • everyday interactions
  • self‑advocacy

Key Concepts

sociology assertiveness

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you turn a slight into empowerment?
A Different Perspective

Responses can be misinterpreted; tone matters.

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