Quote by Steven Stosny Download Open image ““under the surface, it’s really a core hurt that you blame on someone else.”” — Steven Stosny ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ 3.0 out of 5 (5 ratings) Copy quoteShare
“It is a strange thing we do, blaming ourselves when people hurt us, but we all do it.” — Jodi Aman Copy Share Image
“I tried to blame everyone around me, but I knew, deep down, that it was my own fault” — Tobias Wade Copy Share Image
“Does pain sound like the enemy? Pain will have you look deeper at the core; it will have you dissect yourself as a person.” — Charlena Jackson Copy Share Image
“Blaming is a way to protect our hearts, to try to protect what is soft and open and tender in ourselves.” — Pema Chödrön Copy Share Image
“Don’t blame if people are too harsh on you, maybe they have been hurt badly before.” — M.F. Moonzajer Copy Share Image
“Often, people hurt things on accident... No one plans on hurting anyone, but it happens.” — Nichole Chase Copy Share Image
“The worst harm is what we inflict upon ourselves, Yet we point fingers and blame others.” — James T. Barrett Copy Share Image
“Whatever hurt you felt is not an excuse to inflict the same on others.” — Joanne Crisner Alcayaga Copy Share Image
“Pain is important. It acts as a warning. It tells us that we are damaging ourselves in some way.” — Art Berg Copy Share Image
“I paved the path to the very place I don’t want to be. But passing the blame off to someone else doesn’t put me… — Craig D. Lounsbrough Copy Share Image
“Relationships automatically develop resentment when selfish and petty concerns become more important than the emotional connection between you. If” — Steven Stosny Copy Share Image
“psychological sense of spirituality is a feeling of union and transcendence, motivated by compassion, awe, or joy.” — Steven Stosny Copy Share Image
“He hurts you because he loves you inadequately. When he senses your emotional needs, he feels like a failure as a husband. Instead of… — Steven Stosny Copy Share Image
“we are hard-wired to respond to the needs of loved ones, and we fail to do so at our emotional peril.” — Steven Stosny Copy Share Image
“Love him enough to demand that he find it in his heart to value and respect you, according to his deepest values.” — Steven Stosny Copy Share Image
“Specifically, he should: Initiate at least six hugs per day, holding each for at least six seconds.* Stop what he’s doing and greet you… — Steven Stosny Copy Share Image
“A love relationship that isolates one or both parties from parents, friends, community, and spiritual connection is doomed to failure.” — Steven Stosny Copy Share Image
“Everyone in a walking-on-eggshells family loses some degree of dignity and autonomy. You become unable to decide your own thoughts, feelings, and behavior, because… — Steven Stosny Copy Share Image
“And if you feel that you can protect your family’s well-being, your self value will be high, even if you fail in other areas… — Steven Stosny Copy Share Image
“Think about it, she’s complaining because she misses him and wants to be with him.” — Steven Stosny Copy Share Image
“And you are not protective of your husband by staying with him if he does not overcome his addiction to blame.” — Steven Stosny Copy Share Image
