Civility Quote by Stephen L. Carter
““Nastiness devalues the speaker as well because the unwillingness to restrain the urge marks the speaker as less civilized, more animal-like.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: “The Dignity of Speech” by Stephen L. Carter, 2005
Harsh or rude language degrades both listener and speaker, revealing a lack of self‑control and civility.
In simple terms: Being nasty lowers your own status as well as others’.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate restraint in speech.
Themes
civility
communication
self‑respect
Mood
reflective
serious
Type
advice
ethical
When to use this quote
- public speaking
- online comments
- workplace meetings
- family discussions
Key Concepts
ethics
human nature
Questions to Reflect On
- How does your tone affect how others view you?
- What strategies help you pause before speaking?
A Different Perspective
Nastiness can sometimes be a defensive reaction to fear.
