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“Because that's the thing about depression. When I feel it deeply, I don't want to let it go. It becomes a comfort. I want to cloak myself under its heavy weight and breathe it into my lunges. I want to nurture it, grow it, cultivate it. It's mine. I want to check out with it, drift asleep wrapped…” quote by Stephanie Perkins
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“Because that's the thing about depression. When I feel it deeply, I don't want to let it go. It becomes a comfort. I want to cloak myself under its heavy weight and breathe it into my lunges. I want to nurture it, grow it, cultivate it. It's mine. I want to check out with it, drift asleep wrapped in its arms and not wake up for a long, long time.”

Stephanie Perkins

About This Quote

Source Novel: Something Like an Angel by Stephanie Perkins, 2020

Depression can become a comforting, familiar weight, making it hard to let go despite its harm.

In simple terms: Depression can feel like a safe, heavy blanket.

Key Takeaway

Recognize the illusion of comfort and seek healthier coping.

Themes

mental health depression comfort zones addiction self‑care

Mood

somber introspective

Type

therapeutic philosophical

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • mindfulness
  • support groups
  • creative expression

Key Concepts

psychological dependence emotional avoidance identity self‑compassion

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does the “comfort” of depression protect you from?
  • How can you replace it with healthier habits?
A Different Perspective

Depression’s comfort can mask deeper issues.

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