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Bed Quote by Stella Young

“We’ve been sold this lie that disability makes you exceptional and it honestly doesn’t. … I want to live in a world where we don’t have such low expectations of disabled people that we are congratulated for getting out of bed and remembering our own names in the morning.” quote by Stella Young
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“We’ve been sold this lie that disability makes you exceptional and it honestly doesn’t. … I want to live in a world where we don’t have such low expectations of disabled people that we are congratulated for getting out of bed and remembering our own names in the morning.”

Stella Young

About This Quote

Source Speech: TED Talk, “The Myth of the Exceptional Disabled Person”, Stella Young, 2014

Society often praises minimal achievements of disabled people, lowering expectations and reinforcing stereotypes.

In simple terms: Low expectations for disabled people are harmful.

Key Takeaway

Challenge stereotypes and demand equal expectations.

Themes

disability expectations stereotypes inclusion equality

Mood

frustrated hopeful determined

Type

advocacy social commentary inspirational

When to use this quote

  • employment
  • education
  • media representation
  • daily interactions

Key Concepts

social bias psychology human rights

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we support disabled individuals without lowering expectations?
  • What changes would create genuine inclusion?
A Different Perspective

People may argue that celebrating small wins builds confidence, but it can also patronize.

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