Honest with yourself Quote by Sophia Amoruso
““unemotional as possible when you’re asking for a raise. First, be really honest with yourself and make sure that you deserve the raise that you’re asking for. You do not automatically deserve a raise just because you’ve been somewhere for a certain amount of time. But if you can articulate the reasons why you deserve a pay increase, then schedule time to meet with your boss and let her know in advance what you want to talk about. This can be as simple as “I’d like to schedule some time with you to talk about my salary. Is it okay if we put something on the calendar?” Talk to your boss about this in person. Hitting him up on Gchat is not appropriate. If your company does regular yearly reviews, that can also be your chance to talk about money.””
About This Quote
Source Book: #Girlboss by Sophia Amoruso, 2014
Advise to approach salary discussions with calm honesty, clear justification, and professional scheduling, avoiding casual messaging.
In simple terms: Be honest, prepared, and professional when asking for a raise.
Key Takeaway
Prepare evidence, request a formal meeting, and stay composed.
Themes
career advancement
communication
negotiation
Mood
confident
strategic
assertive
Type
advice
practical
professional
When to use this quote
- performance reviews
- salary negotiations
- career planning
- manager meetings
Key Concepts
self‑advocacy
professional etiquette
compensation strategy
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you build a case for a raise without seeming demanding?
- What evidence best demonstrates your value?
A Different Perspective
May be difficult if workplace culture discourages open salary talks.
