Avoidance Quote by Sonali Deraniyagala
““the reality of being here eludes me, I can’t focus, I am dazed. And I want to stay this way. If I have too much clarity, I will be undone, I fear.””
About This Quote
Source Memoir: The Weight of Grief, 2012
Overwhelming clarity can be terrifying; sometimes a hazy, dazed state feels safer than confronting painful truth.
In simple terms: Too much clarity can feel threatening.
Embrace uncertainty when clarity feels harmful.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- creative writing
- meditation
- support groups
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does clarity reveal you fear?
- How can you gently move toward clearer awareness?
Clarity can also be a catalyst for healing, not just fear.