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Stressful situations Quote by Sloane Crosley

“In stressful situations, people often talk about a fight-or-flight response. Which, in my opinion, doesn’t give enough credit to the more common reaction of curling up into a little ball. […] For once, I made the decision to play it cool. Or stupid. Whichever came first. -“Le Paris!” in How Did…” quote by Sloane Crosley
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““In stressful situations, people often talk about a fight-or-flight response. Which, in my opinion, doesn’t give enough credit to the more common reaction of curling up into a little ball. […] For once, I made the decision to play it cool. Or stupid. Whichever came first. -“Le Paris!” in How Did You Get This Number, by Sloane Crosley (2010), P. 219-220””

Sloane Crosley

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Source Book: How Did You Get This Number, Sloane Crosley, 2010, pp.219-220

The quote highlights a less‑discussed coping style—withdrawal or self‑soothing—contrasting it with the classic fight‑or‑flight model.

In simple terms: Sometimes we retreat instead of confronting stress.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and accept your natural response.

Themes

stress coping self‑care psychology

Mood

reflective calm

Type

advice observational

When to use this quote

  • workplace pressure
  • personal crisis
  • social anxiety
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

fight‑or‑flight withdrawal self‑soothing

Questions to Reflect On

  • When do you choose to withdraw versus engage?
  • How can you turn a “ball‑curling” response into constructive action?
A Different Perspective

Not all stress responses are productive; withdrawal can hinder problem solving.

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