Stressful situations Quote by Sloane Crosley
““In stressful situations, people often talk about a fight-or-flight response. Which, in my opinion, doesn’t give enough credit to the more common reaction of curling up into a little ball. […] For once, I made the decision to play it cool. Or stupid. Whichever came first. -“Le Paris!” in How Did You Get This Number, by Sloane Crosley (2010), P. 219-220””
About This Quote
Source Book: How Did You Get This Number, Sloane Crosley, 2010, pp.219-220
The quote highlights a less‑discussed coping style—withdrawal or self‑soothing—contrasting it with the classic fight‑or‑flight model.
In simple terms: Sometimes we retreat instead of confronting stress.
Recognize and accept your natural response.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- workplace pressure
- personal crisis
- social anxiety
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When do you choose to withdraw versus engage?
- How can you turn a “ball‑curling” response into constructive action?
Not all stress responses are productive; withdrawal can hinder problem solving.