Arrogant Quote by Simon Amstell
“I realize that in everything I was saying, that underneath my words was essentially, "why can't we be less judgemental and more like me." Which is judgemental and arrogant, to try and change somebody else's perspective just so that the world can seem better for you. It's important that we have these contrasts in life - nothing was ever created by being the same.”
About This Quote
The speaker admits that his desire for less judgment reflects his own ego, highlighting the paradox of trying to change others.
In simple terms: He sees his own bias in urging others to be less judgmental.
Check your motives before judging others.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal growth
- social activism
- dialogue
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What hidden motives drive your judgments?
- How can you model the behavior you want in others?
Changing others may be impossible without self‑change.