Able Quote by Sidney Jourard
“You cannot collaborate with another person toward some common end unless you know him. How can you know him, and he you, unless you have engaged in enough mutual disclosure of self to be able anticipate how he will react and what part he will play?”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Psychology of Self-Disclosure, Sidney Jourard, 1971
Effective collaboration requires deep mutual understanding, which comes from honest, ongoing self‑disclosure to anticipate reactions and roles.
In simple terms: Know each other through open sharing.
Key Takeaway
Share openly to build trust.
Themes
trust
communication
relationships
Mood
cautious
reflective
Type
advice
psychological
When to use this quote
- team projects
- friendships
- romantic partnerships
- leadership
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
self‑disclosure
interpersonal dynamics
collaboration
Questions to Reflect On
- What boundaries protect healthy openness?
- How much sharing is enough for trust?
A Different Perspective
Over‑disclosure can breach privacy or create vulnerability.
