Accused Quote by Shams Tabrizi
“If you are insulted, if you are accused, if they gossip about you, don't say anything bad. Don't be the one who sees the shame, be the one who corrects it.”
About This Quote
Source Sufi Teaching: Collection of Sayings, 13th century
Responding to criticism with silence and constructive correction preserves dignity and promotes harmony.
In simple terms: Stay silent, correct the shameful.
Choose calm correction over retaliation.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal attacks
- workplace gossip
- online harassment
- family disputes
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you correct a wrong without causing further conflict?
- When is speaking out more appropriate?
Silence may be misread as acceptance, not all situations benefit from non‑confrontation.