Backwards Quote by Shakti Gawain
“Beingness, doingness and havingness are like a triangle where each side supports the others. They are not in conflict with each other. They all exist simultaneously. Often people attempt to live their lives backwards: They try to have more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they want, so that they will be happier. The way it actually works is the reverse. You must first be who you really are, then do what you need to do, in order to have what you want.”
About This Quote
Source Book: You Are Here, Your Brain and Your Life, Shakti Gawain, 1998
Being, doing, and having are interdependent aspects of a balanced life; authentic self‑identity precedes action and material acquisition.
In simple terms: Your true self comes first, then actions, then possessions.
Cultivate self‑awareness before pursuing goals.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal development
- career planning
- financial goals
- health and wellness
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you align your actions with your authentic self?
- What possessions truly reflect your values?
Neglecting practical planning can hinder achieving desired outcomes.