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Children Quote by Seneca

“We are in the habit of saying that it was not in our power to choose the parents who were allotted to us, that they were given to us by chance. But we can choose whose children we would like to be. There are households of the noblest intellects: choose the one into which you wish to be adopted…” quote by Seneca
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““We are in the habit of saying that it was not in our power to choose the parents who were allotted to us, that they were given to us by chance. But we can choose whose children we would like to be. There are households of the noblest intellects: choose the one into which you wish to be adopted, and you will inherit not only their name but their property too. Nor will this property need to be guarded meanly or grudgingly: the more it is shared out, the greater it will become.””

Seneca

About This Quote

Source Letter: Moral Epistles, 1st century AD

Argues that while we cannot choose our birth parents, we can choose the family we align with, sharing and expanding its wealth.

In simple terms: We can select the family we adopt and grow its legacy.

Key Takeaway

Choose supportive relationships to amplify shared wealth.

Themes

choice family legacy wealth sharing

Mood

thoughtful inspirational

Type

philosophical ethical

When to use this quote

  • marriage decisions
  • business partnerships
  • community building
  • education mentorship

Key Concepts

adoption social mobility collective prosperity

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you decide which communities to join?
  • What responsibilities come with shared wealth?
A Different Perspective

Assumes equal opportunity to choose families, ignoring systemic constraints.

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