Dealing with people Quote by Selma Blair
“I remember my first meeting with Guillermo Del Toro - he couldn't have been warmer, but I always had a kind of immaturity about me dealing with people that were in charge. Not really knowing how to conduct myself. And I got on the floor and curled up into a ball under a desk, which is so weird - as I was doing it, I was like, "Oh, my god, you're a freak. Get up. What are you doing?" And I looked at him like, "I'm so sorry," and he's like, "No, it's natural. Why wouldn't you want to do that?" He's just the most giving person and made me feel not like a freak.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Selma Blair on Working with Guillermo Del Toro, 2015
Feeling intimidated by authority figures can cause self‑conscious behavior, but empathy from leaders can normalize nervousness.
In simple terms: People feel awkward around powerful people, but kindness eases it.
Key Takeaway
Accept vulnerability and seek supportive mentors.
Themes
confidence
authority
vulnerability
Mood
nervous
relieved
Type
personal growth
leadership
When to use this quote
- first professional meeting
- public speaking
- team introductions
- networking events
Key Concepts
psychology of self‑esteem
leadership empathy
social anxiety
Questions to Reflect On
- What can you do to calm yourself in high‑pressure meetings?
- How can you foster a supportive environment for others?
A Different Perspective
Not all leaders respond with reassurance; some may reinforce anxiety.
