Family Quote by Scott Means
“Marriage is meant to be more about your surrender than about your satisfaction.”
About This Quote
The quote argues that marriage should focus on giving yourself up for your spouse rather than on personal satisfaction, suggesting that self-surrender is the real purpose of a lifelong union.
In simple terms: Put your spouse's needs above your own satisfaction.
Key Takeaway
Practice surrender in marriage, not selfishness.
Themes
marriage
surrender
selflessness
commitment
love
sacrifice
Mood
sober
convicting
solemn
Type
aphorism
maxim
advice
When to use this quote
- resolving a marital disagreement
- deciding between personal wants and partner needs
- marriage counseling
- when feeling frustrated with a spouse
Key Concepts
sacrificial love
self-denial
marital vows
Questions to Reflect On
- What would surrender look like in your marriage?
- How do you protect your own needs while serving your partner?
A Different Perspective
Surrender without mutual respect can lead to resentment or unhealthy submission.
