Back Quote by Scheana Shay
“Stassi used me when she had no one else and threw me out when her best friends came back.”
About This Quote
Source Podcast: “The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills” reunion, 2020
She felt used by a friend who relied on her during a lonely period, then abandoned her when social circles shifted.
In simple terms: Friendship turned exploitative when convenience ended.
Key Takeaway
Set boundaries and recognize reciprocal relationships.
Themes
friendship
trust
exploitation
boundaries
Mood
hurt
reflective
Type
personal
relationship
When to use this quote
- social gatherings
- online friendships
- work teams
- family events
Key Concepts
Power dynamics
emotional labor
social capital
Questions to Reflect On
- When have you felt used in a relationship?
- How can you protect yourself from one-sided friendships?
A Different Perspective
People may not notice when they become a convenience rather than a true friend.
