Winked Quote by Sarah Waters
““And I made another curtsey, and winked.—Two curious things to do together, as it happened, and I would not recommend you try it: for I fear the wink unbalanced the curtsey; and I’m certain the curtsey threw off the wink.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Tipping the Velvet, Sarah Waters, 1998
A character reflects on a risky social gesture, fearing that a wink might disrupt a curtsey, illustrating anxiety about social performance.
In simple terms: Wink and curtsey may clash, causing embarrassment.
Key Takeaway
Be mindful of social cues.
Themes
social anxiety
performance
etiquette
self-consciousness
Mood
reflective
anxious
thoughtful
Type
explanatory
philosophical
When to use this quote
- formal gatherings
- first impressions
- dance events
- courtship rituals
Key Concepts
body language
social norms
interpersonal dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- Do small gestures truly affect perception?
- How do you balance authenticity and decorum?
A Different Perspective
The focus on minor gestures may overlook deeper relational issues.
