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Dating Quote by Samuel Shem

“Basch: So why don't you ask her out? The Runt: I'm scared she wouldn't like me and say no. -So what? What have you got to lose? -The possibility -if she says no- that she might have said yes. Whatever I do, I don't want to lose that possibility.” quote by Samuel Shem
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““Basch: So why don't you ask her out? The Runt: I'm scared she wouldn't like me and say no. -So what? What have you got to lose? -The possibility -if she says no- that she might have said yes. Whatever I do, I don't want to lose that possibility.””

Samuel Shem

About This Quote

Source Novel: The House of God, 1978

He encourages taking risks in love, emphasizing that the fear of loss outweighs the fear of rejection.

In simple terms: Take chances in love; fear of loss is greater than fear of rejection.

Key Takeaway

Embrace uncertainty and pursue love.

Themes

risk love fear possibility

Mood

hopeful reflective

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • personal growth
  • emotional risk-taking

Key Concepts

courage vulnerability decision making

Questions to Reflect On

  • What would you lose by not trying?
  • Are you willing to accept possible rejection?
A Different Perspective

Overemphasis on risk may ignore practical considerations.

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