Care Quote by Samuel Richardson
“Marriage is a state that is attended with so much care and trouble, that it is a kind of faulty indulgence and selfishness to livesingle, in order to avoid the difficulties it is attended with.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Pamela; or, Virtue Rewarded, Samuel Richardson, 1740
Marriage is portrayed as a burdensome commitment that can become selfish, suggesting that solitude may avoid its inherent difficulties.
In simple terms: Marriage can feel like a selfish indulgence that brings trouble.
Key Takeaway
Consider the costs and benefits before committing.
Themes
marriage
individualism
social expectation
commitment
self‑interest
Mood
critical
thoughtful
analytical
Type
expository
philosophical
When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- personal decision‑making
- financial planning
- family discussions
- solo travel
Key Concepts
freedom
responsibility
loneliness
societal pressure
Questions to Reflect On
- Is partnership always a burden?
- When does solitude become preferable?
A Different Perspective
The view discounts the emotional support marriage can provide.
