Causes Quote by Samuel Johnson
“There is no observation more frequently made by such as employ themselves in surveying the conduct of mankind, than that marriage, though the dictate of nature, and the institution of Providence, is yet very often the cause of misery, and that those who enter into that state can seldom forbear to express their repentance, and their envy of those whom either chance or caution hath withheld from it.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Idler, No. 5, 1760
Marriage often brings hardship, and many regret it, yet they envy those who avoid it.
In simple terms: Marriage can cause suffering; some wish they never married.
Key Takeaway
Consider the costs before committing.
Themes
marriage
misery
envy
Mood
cautious
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
critical
When to use this quote
- arranged marriages
- divorce decisions
- career focus
- family planning
Key Concepts
social contract
personal regret
cultural expectations
Questions to Reflect On
- What aspects of marriage deter you?
- How can you build a healthy partnership?
A Different Perspective
Not all marriages are unhappy; many find joy and partnership.
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