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Anxiety Quote by Rumer Godden

“It is an anxious, sometimes a dangerous thing to be a doll. Dolls cannot choose; they can only be chosen; they cannot 'do'; they can only be done by.” quote by Rumer Godden
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“It is an anxious, sometimes a dangerous thing to be a doll. Dolls cannot choose; they can only be chosen; they cannot 'do'; they can only be done by.”

Rumer Godden

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Doll's House by Rumer Godden, 1974

Being a doll symbolizes lacking agency, being objectified, and the danger of passive existence.

In simple terms: Dolls lack choice and are controlled.

Key Takeaway

Seek agency and resist being objectified.

Themes

agency objectification identity danger

Mood

reflective melancholic

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • career decisions
  • creative projects
  • social roles

Key Concepts

existentialism power dynamics passivity

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does lack of agency affect self-worth?
  • When can surrendering control be beneficial?
A Different Perspective

Dolls can also represent comfort and safety in being cared for.

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