Compare Quote by Roger L'Estrange
“It is not the place, nor the condition, but the mind alone what it compares its situation to that can make anyone happy or miserable. Compare it to something better - result envy, frustration and sadness. Compare it to something worse - relief, gratitude and happiness.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: Moral Reflections, Roger L'Estrange, 1680
Happiness depends on mental comparison; choosing better or worse references alters emotions.
In simple terms: Comparing situations shapes happiness.
Key Takeaway
Adjust your comparisons to improve mood.
Themes
perception
mindset
emotional health
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
self‑help
When to use this quote
- daily stress
- social media
- financial setbacks
- relationship issues
Key Concepts
cognitive appraisal
relative thinking
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- What do you compare yourself to?
- Can you find gratitude in worse situations?
A Different Perspective
Comparisons can lead to chronic dissatisfaction if not balanced.
