Adults Quote by Robert R. McCammon
““But I think parents aren't teachers anymore. Parents -- or a whole lot of us, at least -- lead by mouth instead of by example. It seems to me that if a child's hero is their mother or father -- or even better, both of them in tandem -- then the rough road of learning and experience is going to be smoothed some. And every little bit of smoothing helps, in this rough old world that wants children to be miniature adults, devoid of charm and magic and the beauty of innocence.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Swan Song, 1987
Parents should model behavior rather than just instruct, smoothing a child's learning path and preserving innocence.
In simple terms: Parents teach by example.
Key Takeaway
Lead by doing, not just speaking.
Themes
parenting
role modeling
innocence
Mood
thoughtful
inspirational
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- family rituals
- shared activities
- storytelling
- mindful parenting
Key Concepts
developmental psychology
family dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How can parents balance guidance and independence?
- What examples best teach values?
A Different Perspective
Over‑protectiveness may hinder resilience.
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