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Wanting Quote by Robert James Waller

“As much as I want you and want to be with you and part of you, I can't tear myself away from the realness of my responsibilities. If you force me, physically or mentally, to go with you, as I said earlier, I cannot fight that. I don't have the strength, given my feelings for you. In spite of what…” quote by Robert James Waller
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““As much as I want you and want to be with you and part of you, I can't tear myself away from the realness of my responsibilities. If you force me, physically or mentally, to go with you, as I said earlier, I cannot fight that. I don't have the strength, given my feelings for you. In spite of what I said about not taking the road away from you, I'd go because of my own selfish wanting of you. But please don't make me. Don't make me give this up, my responsibilities. I cannot do that and live with the thought of it. If I did leave now, those thoughts would turn me into something other than the woman you have come to love””

Robert James Waller

About This Quote

The speaker struggles between desire and responsibility, expressing inability to abandon duties despite personal longing.

In simple terms: She feels torn between love and duty.

Key Takeaway

Balance personal desire with obligations.

Themes

conflict responsibility love

Mood

conflicted melancholic

Type

romantic ethical

When to use this quote

  • career decisions
  • relationship choices
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

ethical dilemma personal sacrifice

Questions to Reflect On

  • What priorities guide your choices?
  • How to reconcile love with duty?
A Different Perspective

May be melodramatic.

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