Getting married Quote by Rob Sheffield
““That’s why I never married. Marriage is lonely, but it ain’t private.” That was always my most intense fear about getting married: When everything sucked and I was by myself, I thought, Well, at least I don’t have another miserable person to worry about. I figured if you give up your private place and it still turns out to be lonely, you’re just screwed. So I felt safer not even thinking about it.””
About This Quote
Marriage can feel isolating and exposing, leading some to avoid it out of fear of loneliness despite partnership.
In simple terms: Fear of loneliness can deter marriage.
Consider confronting fear rather than avoiding commitment.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- dating
- counseling
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does loneliness mean to you alone?
- How could intimacy change your sense of privacy?
Avoiding marriage may limit intimate growth.