Argument Quote by Richard Carlson
“The next time you find yourself in an argument, rather than defend your position, see if you can see the other point of view first.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Don't Sweat the Small Stuff, 1997
In arguments, first seek the other side’s view before defending your own to foster understanding.
In simple terms: Listen before you argue.
Key Takeaway
Practice empathy in disagreements.
Themes
communication
empathy
conflict resolution
listening
perspective
Mood
calm
thoughtful
Type
advice
inspirational
When to use this quote
- family disputes
- workplace meetings
- online debates
Key Concepts
cognitive empathy
active listening
psychology of argument
Questions to Reflect On
- What could you learn by truly hearing the opponent?
- How might this change the outcome of a conflict?
A Different Perspective
May be hard to suppress instinct to defend.
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