Love Quote by Rhoda Broughton
““Look at me now. I have done very well without love, at least love in that technical sense, without this fine passion, for twenty years, and I do not see why I should not do it for twenty years more. That is rather a pretty girl, and the man is not unlike a gentleman. They were the people that sat before us in church last Sunday. They are bride and bridegroom, I’m sure; for they had only one prayer-book between them, and it had an ivory back. What absurdly false pictures novels do give one of love, the drawings they make of it are so out of perspective! They represent it as the one main interest of life, instead of being, as it mostly is, a short unimportant little episode. I declare””
About This Quote
Source Novel: “The Heir of the House” by Rhoda Broughton, 1888
Love is often romanticized in literature, but in reality it is a brief, minor episode rather than life's central focus.
In simple terms: Love is a short, minor part of life, not its main aim.
Key Takeaway
Recognize love's limited role.
Themes
love
romanticism
literature
reality
Mood
thoughtful
analytical
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- reading groups
- relationship counseling
- creative writing
- cultural studies
Key Concepts
critical analysis
social commentary
philosophical reflection
Questions to Reflect On
- Do we over‑idealize love in stories?
- How does this view affect personal relationships?
A Different Perspective
May undervalue deep emotional connections and their significance for many people.
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