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Apologies Quote by Randy Pausch

“Proper apologies have three parts: 1) What I did was wrong. 2) I feel badly that I hurt you. 3) How do I make this better?” quote by Randy Pausch
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“Proper apologies have three parts: 1) What I did was wrong. 2) I feel badly that I hurt you. 3) How do I make this better?”

Randy Pausch

About This Quote

Source Speech: Commencement, Carnegie Mellon University, 2007

Effective apologies require admitting fault, expressing remorse, and offering restitution.

In simple terms: Apology = admit, feel, fix.

Key Takeaway

Apologize fully and propose repair.

Themes

communication ethics conflict resolution empathy

Mood

sincere thoughtful constructive

Type

practical educational

When to use this quote

  • workplace disputes
  • personal disagreements
  • customer service
  • family conflicts

Key Concepts

apology structure emotional intelligence relationship repair

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you ensure sincerity in apologies?
  • What steps follow each apology?
A Different Perspective

May not resolve deep wounds alone.

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