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Angry Quote by Ram Dass

“So somebody comes along and gets to me. They get me angry or uptight or they awaken some desire in me, wow am I delighted. They got me. And that’s my work on myself. If I am angry with you because your behavior doesn’t fill my model of how you should be, that’s my problem for having models. No…” quote by Ram Dass
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“So somebody comes along and gets to me. They get me angry or uptight or they awaken some desire in me, wow am I delighted. They got me. And that’s my work on myself. If I am angry with you because your behavior doesn’t fill my model of how you should be, that’s my problem for having models. No expectations, no upset. If you are a liar and a cheat, that’s your Karma. If I’m cheated, that’s my work on myself.”

Ram Dass

About This Quote

Source Book: Be Here Now, Ram Dass, 1971

Personal responsibility means recognizing that emotional reactions stem from our own expectations, not others' actions.

In simple terms: Your feelings are your own.

Key Takeaway

Own your reactions, not others.

Themes

self-awareness responsibility emotional intelligence

Mood

reflective calm

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • conflict
  • personal growth
  • self-reflection

Key Concepts

mindfulness ego karma

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you notice when expectations trigger anger?
  • What practices help you release judgment?
A Different Perspective

Changing others' behavior is impossible; focus on internal work.

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