Angry Quote by Ram Dass
“So somebody comes along and gets to me. They get me angry or uptight or they awaken some desire in me, wow am I delighted. They got me. And that’s my work on myself. If I am angry with you because your behavior doesn’t fill my model of how you should be, that’s my problem for having models. No expectations, no upset. If you are a liar and a cheat, that’s your Karma. If I’m cheated, that’s my work on myself.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Be Here Now, Ram Dass, 1971
Personal responsibility means recognizing that emotional reactions stem from our own expectations, not others' actions.
In simple terms: Your feelings are your own.
Own your reactions, not others.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationships
- conflict
- personal growth
- self-reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you notice when expectations trigger anger?
- What practices help you release judgment?
Changing others' behavior is impossible; focus on internal work.