Death Quote by R. T. Kendall
““grief. We do and say strange things—sometimes bizarre things—when we are swallowed up in grief. No one should be hard on us when we say thoughtless and selfish things when we are in grief. Both Mary and Martha accused Jesus of being the cause of their brother’s death by not responding immediately to their request: “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died” (John 11:21, 32). Jesus did not rebuke either of them. Instead, He wept with them (see John 11:35). So with all of us. He knows our frame; He remembers we are dust.””
About This Quote
Source Bible: John 11, New Testament, 1st century CE
Grief can make people say hurtful things; compassion and shared sorrow help heal those moments.
In simple terms: Grief leads to strange words; empathy eases it.
Offer patience and empathy to those grieving.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family loss
- counseling
- support groups
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we respond without judgment?
- What support helps most during grief?
People may still feel judged despite empathy.