Comfortable Quote by Phyllis McGinley
“Women like other women fine. The more feminine she is, the more comfortable a woman feels with her own sex. It is only the occasional and therefore noticeable adventuress who refuses to make friends with us.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: The New Yorker, 1940s, null
Women feel more comfortable with their own gender when they exhibit traditionally feminine traits, while atypical, adventurous women are seen as outsiders.
In simple terms: Femininity eases same‑sex comfort; non‑conformists feel isolated.
Key Takeaway
Embrace authenticity, but recognize social bias.
Themes
gender
identity
conformity
social perception
Mood
reflective
analytical
Type
social
personal
When to use this quote
- friendships among women
- workplace dynamics
- social clubs
- online communities
Key Concepts
femininity
othering
social norms
Questions to Reflect On
- How does femininity influence your sense of belonging?
- What assumptions do you make about non‑conforming women?
A Different Perspective
Not all women value femininity equally; some prefer gender‑neutral interactions.
