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“One of the things I found is that the things we want to say for well-intentioned motives often cause more harm than good. People don't need our words. They mainly need our presence, they need our love. And if you come in too quickly with explanations, you may do more harm than good.” quote by Philip Yancey
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“One of the things I found is that the things we want to say for well-intentioned motives often cause more harm than good. People don't need our words. They mainly need our presence, they need our love. And if you come in too quickly with explanations, you may do more harm than good.”

Philip Yancey

About This Quote

Source Book: The Art of Listening, 2015

Well‑intentioned words can cause harm; presence and love are more valuable than explanations.

In simple terms: Presence matters more than words.

Key Takeaway

Listen and love before speaking.

Themes

communication empathy presence intentionality

Mood

thoughtful empathetic

Type

advice reflective

When to use this quote

  • counseling
  • friendship
  • family gatherings

Key Concepts

psychology interpersonal dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • When should you stay silent?
  • How can you show love without words?
A Different Perspective

Over‑explaining can alienate.

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