Forster Quote by Philip Larkin
““I really am going to meet Forster: I thought I shouldn't, but apparently the old boy E.M.F. is saying with remembered my name & I am bid to John Hewitt's at 8 tomorrow. Shall I ask him if he's a homo? It's the only thing I really want to know about him, you see. I don't even care why he packed up writing.””
About This Quote
Source Letter: Personal correspondence, 1970s, null
The writer is eager to confront a person, questioning sexual orientation, while dismissing deeper motives behind the encounter.
In simple terms: Curiosity about identity eclipses other concerns.
Key Takeaway
Focus on respectful curiosity.
Themes
identity
curiosity
interpersonal dynamics
Mood
conflicted
inquisitive
Type
personal
ethical
When to use this quote
- meeting a colleague
- academic networking
- personal inquiry
Key Concepts
sexual orientation
social norms
personal motives
Questions to Reflect On
- How would you ask sensitive questions respectfully?
- What are the ethical limits of personal curiosity?
A Different Perspective
Assuming motives can be invasive and disrespectful.
