Being married Quote by Phil McGraw
“Why do so many marriages fail? Because nobody gets taught how to be married. We're not taught how to pick a mate, or why to pick a mate; we don't know how to manage our emotions once we're in a marriage; we don't know how to resolve marital conflict. Married people have never been taught why they or their spouses feel the way they do and act the way they do. Nobody has ever taught us the fundamentals.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, John Gottman, 1999
The quote argues that lack of education on marriage fundamentals leads to high failure rates.
In simple terms: People aren't taught how to marry successfully.
Key Takeaway
Teach core marital skills early.
Themes
relationships
education
marriage
communication
conflict resolution
Mood
reflective
practical
encouraging
Type
educational
relationship‑focused
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- relationship workshops
- parental guidance
- school curricula
Key Concepts
psychology
family studies
social learning
Questions to Reflect On
- What essential skills should be taught before marriage?
- How can couples continue learning together?
A Different Perspective
May ignore cultural and personal differences in relationships.
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