Acquaintance Quote by Peter Mayle
“Sunglasses must be kept on until an acquaintance is identified at one of the tables, but one must not appear to be looking for company. Instead, the impression should be that one is heading into the cafe to make a phone call to one's titled Italian admirer, when--quelle surprise!--one sees a friend. The sunglasses can then be removed and the hair tossed while one is persuaded to sit down.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Darling Buds of May, Peter Mayle, 1990
A social strategy of masking true intentions to avoid awkward encounters, then revealing oneself once a familiar face appears.
In simple terms: Hide motives, then reveal when safe.
Key Takeaway
Use subtle cues to manage social interactions.
Themes
social etiquette
deception
confidence
humor
Mood
playful
wry
observational
Type
anecdotal
humorous
When to use this quote
- café meetings
- networking events
- first dates
- unexpected reunions
Key Concepts
social dynamics
impression management
self‑presentation
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance authenticity with social strategy?
- When is it appropriate to conceal your intentions?
A Different Perspective
May be perceived as manipulative if overused.
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