Children Quote by Peter Cameron
““ Just ignore him and he’ll go away, my mother used to say to Gillian when we were young and I bugged her. Just ignore him. All he wants is attention. In retrospect there seems to be something almost cruel about that—to simultaneously acknowledge and refuse someone’s desire for attention—especially a child’s. All he wants is attention, as if it’s bad to want attention, like wanting money or power or fame.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Man Who Loved Children by Peter Cameron, 2000
Ignoring a child's need for attention can be emotionally damaging, as it denies their desire for connection and validation.
In simple terms: Ignoring attention harms children.
Key Takeaway
Validate and address attention needs.
Themes
parenting
attention
emotional health
validation
child development
Mood
empathetic
concerned
Type
guidance
psychological
When to use this quote
- parenting advice
- child counseling
- education
- mental health
Key Concepts
psychology
emotional intelligence
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we give attention without reinforcing entitlement?
- What healthy ways can children seek validation?
A Different Perspective
The advice may unintentionally teach children to suppress legitimate emotional needs.
