1960s Quote by Pete Hautman
““...TV was entertainment of the last resort. There was nothing on during the day in the summer other than game shows and soap operas. Besides, a TV-watching child was considered available for chores: take out the trash, clean your room, pick up that mess, fold those towels, mow the lawn... the list was endless. We all became adept at chore-avoidance. Staying out of sight was a reliable strategy. Drawing or painting was another: to my mother, making art trumped making beds. A third choir-avoidance technique was to read. A kid with his or her nose in a book is a kid who is not fighting, yelling, throwing, breaking things, bleeding, whining, or otherwise creating a Mom-size headache. Reading a book was almost like being invisible - a good thing for all concerned.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: The New Yorker, 2002
It reflects on how children used chores, art, and reading as ways to avoid being seen on TV, turning invisibility into a coping mechanism.
In simple terms: Kids used chores, art, and reading to stay out of TV’s view.
Find productive outlets to escape unwanted attention.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- assigning chores to kids
- encouraging reading
- promoting art projects
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What activities help you feel unseen when needed?
- How does avoidance affect long‑term growth?
May romanticize avoidance over confronting issues.