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Christian Quote by Paul Miller

“We know that to become a Christian we shouldn’t try to fix ourselves up, but when it comes to praying we completely forget that. We’ll sing the old gospel hymn, “Just as I Am,” but when it comes to praying, we don’t come just as we are. We try, like adults, to fix ourselves up. Private, personal…” quote by Paul Miller
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““We know that to become a Christian we shouldn’t try to fix ourselves up, but when it comes to praying we completely forget that. We’ll sing the old gospel hymn, “Just as I Am,” but when it comes to praying, we don’t come just as we are. We try, like adults, to fix ourselves up. Private, personal prayer is one of the last great bastions of legalism. In order to pray like a child, you might need to unlearn the nonpersonal, nonreal praying that you’ve been taught.””

Paul Miller

About This Quote

The quote argues that prayer should be approached with childlike honesty, not with rehearsed, self‑improving rituals that feel legalistic.

In simple terms: Prayer should be sincere, not polished.

Key Takeaway

Pray authentically, shedding pretenses.

Themes

faith prayer authenticity spirituality

Mood

reflective contemplative

Type

spiritual advice

When to use this quote

  • personal worship
  • spiritual retreats
  • quiet reflection
  • church services

Key Concepts

legalism childlike faith unlearning

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you practice prayer without self‑editing?
  • What does praying “as you are” feel like?
A Different Perspective

It may be hard to abandon ingrained habits of formal prayer.

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