““We may think that people support us, but the props can only help you if you are strong enough to stand. A support system remains merely that, until there is motivation to move forward from within. This framework keeps you with the flow, but when you hit the eddies, it is the power from within which enables you to break out of the current and escape it. If something had to change in my life, I had to be the one to change it. There is no magic wand. And no one can do for you what you can do for yourself.””