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Alive Quote by Pablo Neruda

“You must know that I do not love and that I love you, because everything alive has its two sides; a word is one wing of silence, fire has its cold half. I love you in order to begin to love you, to start infinity again and never to stop loving you: that’s why I do not love you yet. I love you, and…” quote by Pablo Neruda
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“You must know that I do not love and that I love you, because everything alive has its two sides; a word is one wing of silence, fire has its cold half. I love you in order to begin to love you, to start infinity again and never to stop loving you: that’s why I do not love you yet. I love you, and I do not love you, as if I held keys in my hand: to a future of joy- a wretched, muddled fate- My love has two lives, in order to love you. -Sonnet XLIV”

Pablo Neruda

About This Quote

Source Poem: Sonnet XLIV, 1925, Pablo Neruda

Love is paradoxical, containing both affection and denial, reflecting life's dualities and endless yearning.

In simple terms: Love holds opposite feelings together.

Key Takeaway

Embrace love’s contradictions.

Themes

love paradox duality existence

Mood

melancholic passionate

Type

poetic philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • self‑reflection
  • creative writing
  • therapy

Key Concepts

philosophy emotion literary symbolism

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does loving and not loving simultaneously mean?
  • How do contradictions shape intimacy?
A Different Perspective

Idealizing love may ignore practical realities.

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