Alive Quote by Pablo Neruda
“You must know that I do not love and that I love you, because everything alive has its two sides; a word is one wing of silence, fire has its cold half. I love you in order to begin to love you, to start infinity again and never to stop loving you: that’s why I do not love you yet. I love you, and I do not love you, as if I held keys in my hand: to a future of joy- a wretched, muddled fate- My love has two lives, in order to love you. -Sonnet XLIV”
About This Quote
Source Poem: Sonnet XLIV, 1925, Pablo Neruda
Love is paradoxical, containing both affection and denial, reflecting life's dualities and endless yearning.
In simple terms: Love holds opposite feelings together.
Embrace love’s contradictions.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationships
- self‑reflection
- creative writing
- therapy
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does loving and not loving simultaneously mean?
- How do contradictions shape intimacy?
Idealizing love may ignore practical realities.