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“Whether they yield or refuse, it delights women to have been asked.” quote by Ovid
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“Whether they yield or refuse, it delights women to have been asked.”

Ovid

About This Quote

Source Poem: Ars Amatoria, Book 1, 2nd century AD

The line playfully notes that women enjoy being asked, regardless of whether they accept or decline, highlighting the pleasure of being considered.

In simple terms: Women like being asked, even if they say no.

Key Takeaway

Appreciate the gesture.

Themes

courtship communication gender dynamics social interaction

Mood

lighthearted observational cautionary

Type

literary social commentary

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • networking
  • social events
  • marketing outreach

Key Concepts

flattery choice desire etiquette

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does asking affect power balance?
  • What respectful ways to ask exist?
A Different Perspective

May ignore women's autonomy beyond the ask.

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