Emotion Quote by Oscar Wilde
“He watched it with that strange interest in trivial things that we try to develop when things of high import make us afraid, or when we are stirred by some new emotion for which we cannot find expression...”
About This Quote
Source Play: Lady Windermere's Fan, 1892, England
Wilde observes that people focus on trivialities when faced with profound or frightening emotions they cannot articulate.
In simple terms: Fear of deep feelings pushes us to petty interests.
Key Takeaway
Acknowledge and express deep emotions rather than distract.
Themes
psychology
human behavior
emotion
distraction
Mood
melancholic
introspective
wry
Type
philosophical
literary
When to use this quote
- personal counseling
- creative writing
- mindfulness practice
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
existentialism
self-awareness
social critique
Questions to Reflect On
- What trivialities do you use to avoid discomfort?
- How can you safely explore unsettling emotions?
A Different Perspective
Avoiding deep feelings can lead to emotional stagnation.
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