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Storytelling Quote by Opal Palmer Adisa

“How did it begin?' Miss Cotton asked. When?' they replied. In the beginning,' Aunt Velma said. Wid tears,' they assured her. Wid tears,' Dahlia chimed. Ainsworth and the other children waited, but only silence responded to them. They were certain they had missed something; a few of them thought…” quote by Opal Palmer Adisa
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““How did it begin?' Miss Cotton asked. When?' they replied. In the beginning,' Aunt Velma said. Wid tears,' they assured her. Wid tears,' Dahlia chimed. Ainsworth and the other children waited, but only silence responded to them. They were certain they had missed something; a few of them thought perhaps they had even fallen asleep. They asked those who sat beside them, but they could offer no explanation. Ainsworth looked at his mother and she was crying. He felt ashamed for her, but he nticed the woman beside her was also crying. He saw the faces of all the adults, including the men, and tears streamed down all their faces. The story was their memory. The story was the pain that produced tears. The story was what they had lived. The story was their petty jealousy that caused them to begrudge each other every minor success and plot ways to harm one another. The story was all that was lost to them because someone was too selfish to share, too mean to forgive, too blind to see the possibilities. The story was the beginning of their lives that had been old them over and over, but out of embarrassment they hadn't listened; so when the time came for those tales to be useful, they didn't know the details and groped in self-darkness. The story was in the first drop of salty tear that was shed for them, that they shed for themselves. Ainsworht lookd around at his mother and the other adults crying and felt cheated, until he found his own tears. Salty. Sticky. Inseparable from him, like the pain of birth. That was indeed the beginning.””

Opal Palmer Adisa

About This Quote

Source Novel: Untitled Narrative, author unknown, 2020

A group of children confront the weight of unshared histories, realizing that collective pain and jealousy stem from selfishness and lack of forgiveness, leading to a cycle of loss and misunderstanding.

In simple terms: People suffer when stories and emotions are hidden and not shared.

Key Takeaway

Share stories openly to heal collective wounds.

Themes

memory pain forgiveness jealousy collective trauma

Mood

reflective somber hopeful

Type

narrative philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • school counseling
  • community workshops
  • conflict resolution
  • therapeutic storytelling

Key Concepts

empathy psychology social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can honest sharing change a group's dynamic?
  • What prevents people from revealing painful memories?
A Different Perspective

If the story is never told, the pain persists and deepens.

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