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Lonely Quote by Olivia Laing

“If I could have put what I was feeling into words, the words would have been an infant's wail: I don't want to be alone. I want someone to want me. I'm lonely. I'm scared. I need to be loved, to be touched, to be held.” quote by Olivia Laing
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““If I could have put what I was feeling into words, the words would have been an infant's wail: I don't want to be alone. I want someone to want me. I'm lonely. I'm scared. I need to be loved, to be touched, to be held.””

Olivia Laing

About This Quote

Source Essay: “Loneliness and Desire” in The Guardian, 2019

Expressing deep yearning for connection and fear of isolation.

In simple terms: Need for love and touch.

Key Takeaway

Seek meaningful relationships.

Themes

loneliness desire vulnerability

Mood

melancholic hopeful

Type

emotional introspective

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • friendship building
  • dating
  • self‑care routines

Key Concepts

human need emotional expression

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does love mean to you?
  • How can you nurture self‑love?
A Different Perspective

Fear may lead to clinginess.

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