Being married Quote by Oliver Goldsmith
“You, that are going to be married, think things can never be done too fast: but we that are old, and know what we are about, must elope methodically, madam.”
About This Quote
Source Play: The Vicar of Wakefield, 1766
The speaker advises that younger people rush into marriage, while older, experienced individuals should plan carefully and thoughtfully.
In simple terms: Young rush, older plan marriage.
Key Takeaway
Balance youthful enthusiasm with mature planning.
Themes
marriage
age
planning
experience
wisdom
Mood
thoughtful
pragmatic
Type
advice
literary
When to use this quote
- engagement decisions
- career planning
- family discussions
Key Concepts
life stages
relationship dynamics
decision making
Questions to Reflect On
- How do age and experience affect relationship decisions?
- What is the right pace for you?
A Different Perspective
May ignore individual circumstances.
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