Buddhism Quote by Śāntideva
““When happiness is liked by me and others equally, what is so special about me that I should strive after happiness only for myself?””
About This Quote
Source Text: The Bodhicaryavatara, Chapter on Equanimity, 8th century
True happiness is not selfish; it is shared equally, and one should not cling to personal joy alone.
In simple terms: Happiness should be shared, not only personal.
Key Takeaway
Seek shared well‑being over selfish joy.
Themes
compassion
equanimity
selflessness
spiritual ethics
Mood
serene
determined
Type
ethical
philosophical
When to use this quote
- community service
- mindful relationships
- teaching
- spiritual practice
Key Concepts
Mahāyāna Buddhism
interdependence
ego
selflessness
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you cultivate joy that benefits all?
- What practices reduce selfish attachment to happiness?
A Different Perspective
Balancing personal happiness with altruism can be challenging.
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