Refuge Quote by Śāntideva
““Those desiring speedily to be A refuge for themselves and others Should make the interchange of "I" and "other," And thus embrace a sacred mystery.””
About This Quote
Source Text: Bodhicaryavatara, Chapter 6, 8th‑century Buddhist scripture
True compassion arises when we dissolve ego boundaries and recognize the interdependence of self and others, embracing the mystery of shared existence.
In simple terms: Compassion needs letting go of self‑centeredness.
Practice seeing others as extensions of yourself.
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When to use this quote
- counseling
- conflict resolution
- team building
- mindfulness meditation
- social work
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you experience the "I‑other" interchange in daily life?
- What fears arise when you let go of self‑importance?
May be difficult for those entrenched in strong personal identity or cultural individualism.